We have been really thinking hard on buying a house. But where? I still don't know the answer. Rico is away all the time so if we buy one in San Diego we'll be there by ourselves when Rico leaves for deployment again. If we buy here and Rico comes back then we will be apart. ARghhh! But we might buy here in San Francisco just because my parents are here and they could help me with the girls. But first we need mortgage lenders that could help us with our mortgage loans. Hopefully we can settle this soon.