Do you know how many pillows I have? I usually have four pillows for myself and I have to have my favorite pillow so I could sleep. It's very important for me to find the right pillows so we'll all have a restful night sleep. The pillow should be soft but not too soft where you can get suffocated. AT bedinabox.com they have a lot of pillows to choose from do browse and you might find something you like too.